My Mother, Patricia Ruby

Patricia Ruby Haley is my mother, and mother to my sister, Debra, and my brothers, Peter and Scott.

My mum was born in Montreal, Quebec eighty three years ago. She was an only child who was dearly loved by her parents, Phyllis and Percy Haley. They were from Leeds, England: good Yorkshire stock. Phyllis Rhoades came to Canada to marry Percy Haley after the first World War.

My mother, Pat, is opinionated, creative, social, funny and courageous. She is not afraid of trying new things.

Mum has won awards for her volunteerism, and likes to talk to people. She can carry on a conversation with anyone. Pat has joined many organizations, and is not afraid of hard work. She has been a member of the Hospital Auxilliary, Horticultural Club, Legion, Church social committees,  managed the gift shop for a Steam Railway, trained other volunteers, driven patients for Cancer, and supported many other causes.

Patricia married my father, Peter Baxter at 19, and they both provided lots of love to us. They grew up together, had 25 years of work and family, and grew apart. It happens, and it happened to a lot of families in the late 60s and 70s. It was a sad thing, but it was not a bad thing. And they always put us first throughout weddings, birthdays, Christmases, and any other family celebrations.

Mum moved to Ontario with my youngest brother, Scott. She got herself a job, and bought a house. They were not easy years, but Scott was a big help. We always tease her about Scott, but know that he was her main support during these years.

One of the best things that happened to my mum, is that she met William J. Hool. Bill and Mum married, moved from Toronto to Tottenham, then to Beeton. Together they have decorated and renewed every house they have lived in. Bill's carpentry, plumbing, stained glass making and gardening skills are legendary, as well as his penchant for tidiness. Mum is a wonderful cook, and always has tons of food for anyone who drops in. She may not be the neatest cook, but all is forgiven when the food is on the table!

 Patricia tries her hand at most creative things. Over the years, she has sewn, knitted, crocheted, done toile, tried quilting, painted folk art, water colours, and acrylics. She is generous and keeps her eye out for gifts for her children, their partners, and her many grandchildren.

Mum and Bill have traveled to Africa, Australia, New Zealand, England, and Europe. They visit us in New Brunswick, and host friends and family in Beeton.

We wish you all the best on your birthday, Mum! Much health and happiness!
We love you very much!
Donna and Tod
xxxoooxxx